Home Birth Rocks! |
Friday July 25, 2014 I was 41 weeks and 4 days pregnant I had decided to take a "labour cocktail" to try and encourage baby to make its way out. I wasn't particularly done with being pregnant, but I did want to try and naturally encourage baby out before the hospital politics got involved. Sadly, here, we have a misunderstanding of due dates and what they mean and because of that woman are often pressured based on those dates. At any rate I figured that it would be best to encourage baby a bit and took the cocktail. The mix of juice, almond butter, castor oil and various other things seemed to get twinges going and by that evening I was having fairly regular braxton hicks like contractions, but they still weren't painful so I decided to head to bed and try and get another nights sleep as baby could come any time.
At around 12:30am on Saturday July 26, 2014 I woke up to more painful contractions. I couldn't sleep anymore so I decided to get out of bed and try to encourage them along. They came and went but seemed to be getting more regular. Adam and Marek were up with me and we just busied ourselves getting the house ready. At around 3:00am I called my midwife and let her know that things were picking up. She advised me to take a warm bath as it could stop false labour or encourage it if it was the real thing. I took her advise and got in the tub. My contractions got stronger and closer together so I felt confident that my labour had actually started! At around that time Adam called Miranda, the wonderful woman that was setting up my birth pool and she showed up by 4:30am to set up. I was still in the tub but when I got out my beautiful pool was filling up in my living room and it really felt like things were going to happen. My baby was coming and I couldn't wait. At some point during the night I had also called my mom to let her know things were happening and when my contractions kept up I called her again to let her know to head over. She came at around 6:00am bearing many delicious snacks and settled into looking after Marek.
Thats when things got tough, my labour slowed to almost nothing and I began to feel discouraged. I was texting my midwife and my birth team, but really didn't know what to tell them. Things had pretty much stopped and here I was with a birth pool, food and no sleep thinking it had all been for nothing. I decided to go try and nap to see if things would pick up again and they did a little with multiple strong contractions, but they were still far apart enough to not need any action. At around 9:00am my awesome Doula showed up and we hung out for a while and then at 9:30 my midwife came to check on me. Her check showed that I had dilated to 6cm overnight which meant that things had happened! Thank God! But I still wasn't in active labour so she headed out and told me to let her know as soon as things picked up or my water broke.
The next few hours were an agonizing game of cat and mouse. Contractions would start and stop. Get closer together then farther apart and increase and decrease in intensity. Adam and I took walks around our courtyard, I bounced on my labour ball, I ate, drank, laughed and felt like crying because I felt like I had no idea when I was going to get to meet my baby. I was frustrated because I felt like I had called people for nothing and I really didn't want to pack up and go back to waiting.
Then at around 3:30pm things began to pick up again and this time it didn't slow. I shifted from trying to bring contractions on to finally being able to focus on coping with them. Shortly after that I sent a text to my midwife telling her that things were happening and that I needed her there. She was there before I knew it and began setting up all her equipment for the safe birth of my sweet babe.
I was vaguely aware of people taking pictures (something I had asked for and the greatest gift) so I will continue the story with those.
Breathing through contractions, reading my affirmations and being powerfully and gently supported by the love of my life. |
His words of encouragement were invaluable. An amazing source of strength as I began to battle with the growing intensity of my contractions.
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Clearly the environment was a relaxed one as :) Marek was so well taken care of that I was able to fully relax knowing that loving hands had him always.
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Eventually I got in the pool and the relief it brought was immense. I was surround by warm comfort and my body was able to relax without much weight or pressure.
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Because my active labour was so short the contractions were long, hard and close together. Adam was with me through almost every single one.
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The strength and vulnerability in labour is a beautiful thing.. |
Marek was so sweet and helpful. He would often come up to me and whisper "Hi Mum" and he stroked my face and hair..
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Taking Ina May's advice to kiss through contractions. It was worth it :)
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As contractions increased I began to feel the need to push. My midwives were so hands off allowing me to focus on following the needs of my body.
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But they were never far away. Always watching and waiting patiently. Also note the lovely pregnant belly! It was really a neat thing to be supported by a woman so close to meeting her own sweet baby!
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My other amazing midwife! So calm and relaxed. Such a peaceful presence to have in the room.
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The first looks at our sweet son. |
The littlest birth attendant! His facial expression kills me! |
Checking out all his teeny tiny bits and pieces! |
So much love and joy! |
That pouty lip! Oh my heart! |
Some of my amazing team! |
The full picture that I had to include because it is freaking hilarious! |
This moment... Incredible for me. |
Skin to skin with daddy! |
Somebody is wide awake and looking for more milk :) |
Gentle infant exams. Baby never had to leave us |
Introducing Marek was a true joy! He loved seeing his baby after talking about it for so long!
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More precious moments. |
My boys. |
Thankful. |
Dmitriy's birth was an incredible experience. It strengthened my relationship with Adam and gave us an unforgettable experience as a couple. It made me an undying advocate for midwifery and the women that were there for me. It allowed me to birth and recover in the way that I needed. But more than all of that it gave me a confidence in myself that I couldn't imagine. It was my personal Everest and I conquered it.
Special Thanks to:
West Coast Health Collective: http://wchealthco.com/
Yellow Bird Birth: http://yellowbirdbirth.com/
Elderberry Birth: http://www.elderberrybirth.com/
Special Thanks to:
West Coast Health Collective: http://wchealthco.com/
Yellow Bird Birth: http://yellowbirdbirth.com/
Elderberry Birth: http://www.elderberrybirth.com/